T.S. Eliot (1888-1965) was born one year before Hopkins died. He was born in Missouri, parents were Unitarians, but moved to England as a young man and later became an impassioned Anglophile and British citizen. When he wrote his famous "Wasteland" in the early l920's, with its images fresh from the horrors of World War I, one could assume him to be an agnostic with a nihilistic view and not a lot of hope. By the late l920's, however, he was associating with Anglican priests. "On June 29, l927, having completed his training, he was baptized and received into the C of E at Finstock Church in the Cotswolds.It was, as were so many of the important events in Eliot's life, done in great secrecy. The front doors of the church were locked and a verger was posted on guard at the vestry. 'the precautions were necessary to avoid anyone being embarrassed by the sight of an adult at the baptism font." |
In l930 Eliot wrote his poem Ash Wednesday, which depicted a person who had
already turned his back on the world but was not quite ready yet to be able to
pray and embrace conventional Christianity.
Eliot had consolidated his place in British society by marrying Vivian HaightWood, but the marriage shortly became shaken by Vivien's precarious mental health. At the dinner table of Virginia Wolff, Ottoline Morrell and others, Vivian was embarrassing her husband, who took much stock in being civil and proper.Vivian had hysterical tendencies. On one occasion when a woman of society called to her by name on Oxford Street, she called back "I'm not Vivian Eliot. She's this horrid woman who looks like me and is always getting me into trouble." The Eliots, when they traveled, were now always taking separate rooms, and Eliot had very little social life because of his wife.The family doctor had given a rather unflattering diagnosis- moral insanity! He saw that he would have to divorce her, but confrontation was not his strong point. He was offered a year's visiting professorship at Harvard in 1932-l933, and he saw this as a chance to escape from the family flat. He knew he was leaving when his wife accompanied him down to the ship where he was to take off. While in American, he had his solicitors serve her the separation papers. She remained in denial, eagerly awaiting his return. He did not return to their home; she thought he had been lost at sea, but he had taken up residence first at a boarding house in Kensington, then in rooms at St. Stephen's rectory in the same neighborhood, where he lived for several years. Vivien made attempt after attempt to see him, going to his place of business at Faber and Faber the renouned publishers on Russell Square, where his secretary would deny he was there and he would sneak out the back and absent himself for several hours. She finally saw him one time when he was giving a lecture on a book; he said something like "Oh, how do you do?" like she were just another member of the audience- and for once she did not make a scene. She once put an ad in the London Times--"Tom Eliot please return home." In l936 her diaries stop and the next we learn she has died after 11 years at Northumberland House, a private mental hospital in Finsbury Park, N. London.
The 20th c's most famous poet - never lived in sumptuous surroundings.After the war, in l946, he set up housekeeping with a literary man John Hayward, at 19 Carlyle Mansions. Eliot's study and bedroom were 2 cheerless rooms at the back of the building. The bedroom was lit by a bare electric lightbulb; an ebony crucifix hung over his single bed. Hayward, a younger man, was in a wheelchair, and Eliot often sacrificed his time taking the very ociable Hayward to a party or pushing him and his wheelchair through a park. |
This living
arrangement may or may not have emboldened a young literary critic to
interpret The Wasteland as having homosexual overtones, suggesting that
the poet had been mourning a young man who had drowned. Eliot and his
soliciters demanded destruction of the remainder of the magazines where
the critical article appeared.On Jan. 10, l957, at 6:l5 in the morning
and still quite dark, Eliot slipped out of the flat, met his much
younger secretary--she still called him Mr. Eliot-at St. Barnabas Church
in Addison Rd. Kensington (ages 30, 68 respectively) and married her. He
had not previously discussed this plan with his roommate of 11 years who
was in a wheelchair. He had not told his close friends, Emily Hale and
Mary Trevelyn. The new Mr. and Mrs. Eliot were inseparable for the next
8 years. Eliot's health was failing and he succombed to
cardio-respiratory problems and stroke.
-Dorian Borsella |
Eliot brought the word "Prufrock" into the English language, meaning a sniveling, equivocating sod, underwhelmed by his sense of importance: |
There will be time, there will be time
(From
The Love Song of J. Alfred Prufrock) |